Turkey, unlike most countries around the world, has a very open culture. However “open” takes a very different meaning in this culture. It does not mean that we can be free to wear and do anything we want. Things like wearing shorts around or looking at people –especially women- in a direct way can be considered shameful. “Open” means that the people are very different, more caring towards others.
However, such cultural “shuns” are not present in our home countries, especially Korea or America. A long-term resident of Turkey, Aaron A---- compares, “There is no precedent or cultural ‘No No’s in America. However in Turkey, looking at woman can be considered very adulterous.”
The most basic thing that Turkish people like to do is greeting each other, and whether it be a friend or a total stranger, they start with a peck on both cheeks, and perhaps some kissing sounds while they do so.
They are very hospitable people. Once you greet your neighbor after moving into an apartment, they will generally greet you, and call you over for tea. “Turks are far more hospitable than Americans. They put the needs of their guests far above anything else and are quick to take care of you-even if they just met you.”, are the words of Charlotte P---, who has been living in the local community for the past 5 years.
This friendliness is generally not the same in our home countries. “In America, they are quite the opposite”, complained Gabe N--, second year resident of Turkey. “For the most part, you will be invited to their home only after a certain level of intimacy is established.”
